Listener
The calm, empathetic ear who provides emotional grounding. They know sometimes the best help is just being there.
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relational
tangible
assertive
adaptive
independent
collaborative
How Listeners Show Support During Major Life Events
Loss of a Loved One: Sits quietly with their friend, offering a compassionate presence without needing to say much.
Major Diagnosis: Provides a safe space for the friend to share their fears and feelings without judgment.
Disability: Makes time to listen as their friend processes their feelings about their new reality.
Hospitalization: Spends time at the hospital, offering quiet companionship without needing to “fix” anything.
Warning
This support language should be careful to avoid becoming passive or failing to offer actionable help when it’s needed.
Support Languages
Framework
Support Languages are based on three key dimensions — Actions, Activation, and Socialization. These three dimensions combine to create eight unique styles of offering support.
All Eight Support Languages
Each Support Language is a unique way of showing up for others in times of need.
Connector
The relational bridge-builder who ensures no one feels alone. They connect people, resources, and hearts with a touch of creativity.
Community Builder
The inspirational motivator who creates a supportive network. They foster unity and ensure no one goes through hard times alone.
Coordinator
The team-oriented leader who thrives on organizing group efforts. They bring people together to make big impacts happen.
Organizer
The go-to planner who thrives on logistics and getting things done. From meal trains to detailed schedules, they turn chaos into order.
Listener
The calm, empathetic ear who provides emotional grounding. They know sometimes the best help is just being there.
Harmonizer
The empathetic peacekeeper who brings balance and positivity. They ensure emotional connections remain strong.
Team Player
The dependable helper who’s ready to jump in wherever needed. They adapt and support without hesitation.
Problem Solver
The hands-on doer who tackles challenges head-on. They fix, adapt, and find practical solutions when everything feels uncertain.
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