Connector
The relational bridge-builder who ensures no one feels alone. They connect people, resources, and hearts with a touch of creativity.
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Connector
relational
tangible
assertive
adaptive
independent
collaborative
How Connectors Show Support During Major Life Events
Loss of a Loved One: Helps notify extended friends and family while providing emotional touchpoints through thoughtful messages.
Major Diagnosis: Links the friend to support groups, specialists, or others who’ve experienced similar diagnoses.
Disability: Finds local resources, disability advocates, or supportive communities to help navigate new challenges.
Hospitalization: Keeps the friend connected to the outside world through messages, calls, or visits from loved ones.
Warning
This support language should be careful to avoid overwhelming the person with too many connections or unsolicited introductions.
Support Languages
Framework
Support Languages are based on three key dimensions — Actions, Activation, and Socialization. These three dimensions combine to create eight unique styles of offering support.
All Eight Support Languages
Each Support Language is a unique way of showing up for others in times of need.
Connector
The relational bridge-builder who ensures no one feels alone. They connect people, resources, and hearts with a touch of creativity.
Community Builder
The inspirational motivator who creates a supportive network. They foster unity and ensure no one goes through hard times alone.
Coordinator
The team-oriented leader who thrives on organizing group efforts. They bring people together to make big impacts happen.
Organizer
The go-to planner who thrives on logistics and getting things done. From meal trains to detailed schedules, they turn chaos into order.
Listener
The calm, empathetic ear who provides emotional grounding. They know sometimes the best help is just being there.
Harmonizer
The empathetic peacekeeper who brings balance and positivity. They ensure emotional connections remain strong.
Team Player
The dependable helper who’s ready to jump in wherever needed. They adapt and support without hesitation.
Problem Solver
The hands-on doer who tackles challenges head-on. They fix, adapt, and find practical solutions when everything feels uncertain.
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